Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Tiding over

The second start of the week definitely hasn't been smooth sailing.
I embarrassed myself twice in the SIM canteen my screaming "Whoa!" to the wrong person.
I spilled ice-creamed on the table, but with a loud thud as the fork is unable to pierce through the walnut brownie.
I've gained weight. Tested postive.
Eileen has started on ALL of her work. Never a good feeling. Gulps.
Feeling ominous throughout the journey home.
Desperate Housewives have got no Season 3 in DVD. The one in my laptop proved lousy and annoys me.
Being flamed by on public
Fight with mom.

It has certainly been one hell of a night ride.
But I have to admit there have been pleasant things as well.
Finally been able to talk to Ying and Fung.
Also, I didn't quarrel with Victor.

I did this when I was in lecture when I was very grouchy because a couple of guys were getting on my nerves... :(

Last Sunday was our Gold Graduation act at SHHK, here's a preview:

This is Di Shan darling, whom made me a purple little crystal puppy that I swear looks like Victor and/or Doggie.

Was suposed to take only with Yong Zhi, but the others turned up as well. =.= Haha. Been friends for like LONG LONG time.

The clique at SHHK.

The Graduated Class of 2007. Finally.

Tonight I've spent hours on phone, blowing off hot remarks and feeling surges of disapointment sweeping past my body.

Now I've got to do what I've got to do.

Maybe for starters, let's introduce the parties involved:

I am stumped when I read the blog entries. Ying messaged me an urgent message to call her.

Referring to the-only-time's blog,(me, I'll be commenting in brackets.)

"Some of you might remember me going to Jo's BBQ a week ago. Now, this is what happened. As we don't know anyone there, except for Jo and Kam Fung themselves, and as there were no more seats left, we went to sit elsewhere. And when we wanted to have a group photograph taken, Kam Fung called for this ex-classmate of theirs to help.(This is true till now.)

She first used Jo's camera to shoot, then asked if I wanted to use mine to take a few shots as well (Like duh, won't you offer your help to people whom have cameras?). Since she volunteered, why not? I passed her my camera. She examined it for awhile, then told me, "It's very dark, cannot see anything."

I told her, just press the button halfway, and you'll see everything. She insisted that it was in the wrong mode (it was, on MACRO MODE. Note: Night time outside, taking a group of 6. Daigo, tell me if this is right or not.), but took the pictures anyway.

And just now, as I was blog-hopping, I saw this on her blog.

[[ I was actually pissed after helping one of 'em taking photo coz' she said it was dark. I told her the mode was incorrect and I couldn't see, she won't believe. Don't give me that 'look' then. ]] (Yes, this is written by me, BUT not on my blog. It's in my ImageStation albums, not under Blogger at all.)

HELLO?! WHY NOT CALL YOURSELF STUPID?! (I see that as the first act of offense, considering that IT IS LIBEL,which means I can sue you for defamation. NOTE: STUPID.)You must be some ignorant country bumpkin (Offense number 2: IGNORANT. COUNTRY BUMPKIN) who obviously haven't had your hands on a Sony Cybershot before (Well, I HAVE. That's too bad. Chern Harn owns one.), because all Cybershot cameras work like that! (Only have MACRO mode?) Why should I believe you (because I'm in the media, likes photography and know a thing or two about camera while you're the one posing for the cameraman, she's a model by the way.) when you said it's in the incorrect mode (up till now, I might be wrong. Let's wait for what the FSV people say.) when I know my camera better than you know your maths?! (Offense Act 3: CRITICISING one's intelligence. Personally, I didn't think my maths is that lousy either.)

And since when I complained about it being dark? (In my memory, yes she did. After taking a look at the photos, she commented," Oh, it's quite dark. Ah nevermind, I'll just need to go back use Photoshop to brighten it up.")You were the one who told me after the photo-taking that it is dark, and I said it's alright. For your information, the picture turned out perfect with all of us looking great when I uploaded it to the computer, and it was even displayed on our Friendsters.

*rolls eyes* (Offense act 4: Attitude)"

Back to me, as of the above direct extracting, apparently she started those rants because of my saying "pissed", I SO DID NOT SAY PISS OFF, FOR GOODNESS SAKE. And it was it her nature that she couldn' take it down, she had to do the same in her "own personal space" as well. Hear it right. Blogs. Personal. And as if it's her character that she cannot take things well and control her attitude in her own hands, she had done it, smacked me right on. If were to say that's fair, shouldn't I have to right to do the same thing as well?

Moving on, I also got additional comments by

"I'm rather pissed aft knowing that too.
dun judge my frens if u duno them.
i seriously see no wrong in any one of them n' i dun nid u to go ard giving comments.
lastly, a million 'thanks' if u happen to see this."

Did you note "pissed"? What about "judge"? Watch out for "going around giving comments". Lastly, don't miss out the " 'thanks' ".

1) You are not into this at all. You simply heard it from the-only-time and made Assumptions.
2) You made public assumptions on public blog.
3) You used "pissed" too, should I flame you too, on my blog?
4) From my photo caption, I DID NOT JUDGE.
5) I DID NOT go around, I only put it on my photo album.
6) The 'thanks' was sarcastic enough, although I did not know what was it for exactly.

Best part of it all was that we were friends for 6 six years, good friends for 2 years (in my opinion at least), and classmates for 4 years if we aren't close enough to be labelled 'friends'.

I'm not going to demand/hear any apology or apologise to them as I've promised 3 important people in my life.

All I can say is: Disappointed as it is, that is all our friendship is worth, as seen through now.
And: Sorry Fung that I've caused much trouble for you.
And: Sorry Ying, to have heard about your news.
And: Sorry Vic, to have raised my voice.
And: Sorry Jo, if that happens again, I can't just ignore and let it go on. I didn't add additional things here, this is all here. HOW CAN IT POSSIBLY NOT AFFECT ME?

DISCLAIMER: As a believer in ethical media practioner, I've used my words carefully and did not make false accusations nor submit any untrue information.

No joking around here, coz' I'm dead serious. I know a thing or two about flaming comments too.


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